My brother Tommy died by suicide January 10, 1987. Tommy was a terrific person, a caring and funny son, brother and friend. As a father, Tommy loved his 2 sons very much. Unfortunately, Tommy hid his hopelessness and desperation from all of us. We had no idea how much pain he was in.

In 1988 I became a volunteer at the Samaritans. I know first hand how devastating the loss of a loved one by suicide can be. It's like none other - you don't know what to do, what to feel, where to turn. 

The Samaritans offers help to those individuals affected by suicide; they provide a 24/7 befriending phone line for lonely or desperate callers; SafePlace is a confidential support group for suicide survivors; and The Samaritans sponsor community outreach and education programs. 

We formed Tommy's Team 11 years ago to remember my brother Tommy, raise public awareness about the tragedy of suicide and to raise money for a wonderful organization that provides invaluable services to people who are struggling with tremendous pain and loss.

Thank you for your kindness and generosity.

Tommy, we love you, miss you and think of you always.